I’m currently taking a course and in the last class, the coach asked that we refrain from reading any books besides the course texts for the 3 month duration of the course. I was completely floored by that request because I’m an avid reader; books are my thing; I read constantly; I love books; call me “Reader”! So you can imagine my resistance to this suggestion.
“This is sacrifice!” I said to her dazed. She reminded me that I didn’t have to do what she suggested but she is making the recommendation that if I do, I will be surprised by the “result”. The coach’s premise was that we often allow too many voices to speak into our lives when we actually would be better off listening deeply to ourselves and to God. This got me really thinking and wondering: how many people am I allowing to speak into my life every day, in the form of books, movies, programmes, friends and strangers?
What I have learnt this year is that indeed, I do have the wisdom to do my life and do it well. We are all equipped with the internal resources to live our best lives. To tap into what is readily available inside us though, we do have to take the time to be still and listen. For many of us, it’s a process of re-discovery; re-discovering that we are wise and whole and able. Doesn’t mean that there is no place for welcoming other people to speak into our lives. There is. We are wired and made for community; it is part of our human experience. What is called for though is a sense of discernment – choosing which voices to welcome and even then, being able to be still and weigh what is shared against our own internal wisdom and knowing.
So I am going to try my coach’s suggestion and “fast” from the constant companionship of books and see what happens. Already I am grateful for the prompting to begin questioning the influence of others in my life. I look forward to see what happens with more listening; less outside voices.
What about you beloveds? How many voices are you allowing to speak into your life? Could you use more internal listening and trusting yourself and your God? As the weekend begins, I wish you moments of stillness and the growing confidence that they bring, that you have all that you need to build your best, deepest, fullest life.
Happy weekend. Love, love, m
So.. this explains your disappearing act.. but its really good stuff! Keep going M, wishing success and great outcomes!
amen – may it be so! and i haven’t ati disappeared… i’m here :- )*
This is such a wise post – loved reading it Mutheu. The voices are also TV, papers, the internet … all distracting from our inner intuition. You’ve really got me thinking. Thank you!
you’re welcome Marian. and true, all those additional voices also do impact us.
awsome space mutheu! i see we have a common fan by the name of Soi 🙂
thanks and welcome here. good to connect.
You have a way of speaking into my life with every posting you put up. Thank you and bless you for that. Your gift will take you before great kings….
juliet… thank you so much for your encouraging words and for being here – sharing the space! :- )*
How deep is this post? I have never quite realized it, but I do the switching-off of other voices quite often (eg. taking social network hiatuses) in order to listen to my inner voice. It’s good to know it’s a thing 🙂
Our date? 🙂
it is a thing indeed. wonderful that it resonates. yes, let’s do it. this coming week? emailing you now…
Today’s life has a lot of distraction, yet i guess being still is still the way to go…a chance to reflect on our lives and what God’s telling us. Good writing!
yes to the value of stillness! thanks for connecting here.